In the Better You Deep Dive, we take a closer look at one of the wellness topics we’ve highlighted in our Better You Digest. Discover, ponder, and enjoy!
“Money loves me and I am worthy of its love.”
Today’s deep dive will focus on one very important question:
How can you program your subconscious mind to attract wealth?
What kinds of things should you be doing right now, today, so you can have a mindset for attracting wealth in 2025 and beyond?
Explore ideas on this in my deep dive below, and check out my recent YouTube video on this topic, as well.
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Marisa
When we talk about attracting wealth and having a healthy relationship with money and financial abundance, we must first identify what our subconscious beliefs about money are, then shift those beliefs as needed to the mindset we really want.
Your beliefs about money are formed by the time you are five years old. If your caregivers were often stressed about money or couldn’t afford to consistently provide the things you needed or wanted, you may be carrying an underlying belief that money is scarce.
If you always had everything readily provided to you in life and didn’t have to think about money much at all, the idea of focusing on it or working for it may be uncomfortable.
And of course, there are as many belief-setting childhood experiences about money as there are people to experience them!
My little girl said to me once, “Mommy, you don't have to ask Daddy for money. If you go to the bank and put some plastic in the wall, the wall gives you money.”
That was her belief!
What are they? Whose are they? Who told you that?
Was it ever true? Even if it was true for your parents, is it true for you?
Whatever your money beliefs are, a great place to begin in reframing your money mindset to where you want it to be today is to get super comfortable with the idea of wealth.
How?
Consider creating a money vision board. This can be physical or digital—whatever resonates most with you.
Put everything on there that represents the wealth and financial abundance you want to attract into your life, then place it somewhere you’ll see it and take it in every day.
When you focus on…
I can’t afford it.
I can’t have it.
Where’s the money coming from?
…you’re focusing on lack.
Instead, focus on statements like…
I can easily afford to live my best life.
I can have that.
Money flows easily to me.
…and you are focusing on abundance.
You are worthy of this. You deserve this. You have gifts you are sharing with the world that attract abundance to you.
The truth about money is:
What you believe about money, you are going to make real.
Are you not making enough money? Do you want to make more?
Or maybe you feel that you're not paid enough for the work that you do.
There are two things you have to do to get your money mindset where you want it to be, and you have to do them really well.
The first is to take a moment and decide, do you feel worthy? Do you feel deserving of being paid more?
If you don't, you'll block yourself from financial abundance every step of the way.
You have to take the time to practice saying:
“I'm worth it. I deserve it. I'm worthy of this. I deserve this.”
But it can't be a fleeting thought! You’ve got to wire that in, code it in.
“I am worth it. I do deserve it.”
If you feel like you don't deserve it, you’ll get it but you won’t keep it.
Working with so many clients over the years, many wealthy and many not, one thing stands out to me about the mindset that my wealthy clients hold:
They tend to believe that they are worthy of it, and that the more money they have, the more good they do in the world.
Try incorporating that into your money mindset practice and see how it feels:
“I am worthy of wealth. The more money I have, the more good I do in the world.”
And be sure to put all your money mindset focus phrases in the present tense:
“I am… I have… It is…”
Use your imagination and all your senses when you practice. In other words, let’s say you want a new car.
Imagine the feeling of the steering wheel in your hand, breathing in the fresh air through your open window on a pleasant drive, feeling happy and secure in your new vehicle.
Really put yourself in the mindset of what it would feel like to already have achieved your goal.
The second thing when it comes to achieving financial abundance is that you need to be willing to learn something new. Any goal of significance, including a goal of more money, will require you to learn something new.
You could say, “Hey, I write books. How can I earn more money?”
Learn to be a speaker. Learn to be comfortable getting on stage. Learn how to create a successful blog and monetize it.
Finding your “something new” may simply be a matter of doing a lot of research to find out what's selling, what people want, and what people are missing in their lives, then finding something there that resonates with you personally that you know you’d be excited to learn.
If you do these two things—practice knowing you are worthy and committing to learning something new—you’ll create the money mindset you want and attract the financial abundance you deserve.
Just remember, you have to believe it.
You have to make sure it resonates through your entire being.
When you do that, you can make more money, live with more wealth, and thrive financially.
Whatever you believe about money, you're going to make that true. So identify what old beliefs you’ve been operating under, then put in the work to get very comfortable with the idea of wealth so you can align yourself with being deserving of it.
It takes commitment and follow through, but it’s really a lot easier than you think.
